Here we are getting ready to launch our rockets the 3 times that was required before entering them along with their record book in the Chase County Fair. (Circa 1994ish.) |
My mom and her cousin led a group of 14
ornery boys – and me – God blessed them with more patience than most! There was
a five-year age difference between their youngest “of age” member and myself. I was also was the only girl in the club.
Together, we did every project we could
squeeze in from showing all species of livestock, rocketry, to baking cookies the night
before entry day. We spent a lot of time together at meetings and shows.
Just like all our other projects, I wouldn’t let
them leave me out. I let my parents know I wasn’t going to sit out of the game
when my eight-year-old brother got to purchase his first show steer from a neighbor,
so my parents and I compromised and I got to purchase a bucket calf for my
first Pre-4-H livestock project.
Here I am, in 1991, watching the boys get their steers ready for the show. |
What my heroes didn’t know is that I was watching
their every move. I tailed all of them, mentally noting their every move when
fitting their steers, (complete with shaved bellies – thankfully that trend
subsided in the early ‘90s), washing their hogs and shearing their lambs in
preparation for the show. I took my mental notes to my “open class” animals and
mimicked their actions, so that I could be just like them! If one of them
balled a tail, I balled my bucket calf’s tail. If one of them wore black,
lace-up Justins to show, I wore black, lace-up Justins to show. I mirrored
their actions to a T.
I saw them occasionally dunk a younger 4-Her, who had been ornery to them earlier in the day, in the tank. I watched them be
the instigators of the annual wash rack water fight. I saw them play tricks on
the unfortunate soul that fell asleep in a lawn chair in the barns.
But I also watched them be good sports about
winning and losing. I watched them shake the hands of the Grand and Reserve
Champions after each show, even though their steer might have only received a
blue ribbon. I watched them help each other and their neighbors in the show
ring when a stubborn animal wouldn’t cooperate. I watched them help younger
members of the program get their animals safely to the ring and back to the
stalls. I watched them thank the judge
for their time after the show and also thank the exhausted extension agents for
their efforts as well.
These young men had no idea I was watching
all of this or the impact it would have on me for the rest of my life.
As a retired showman, I now sit back in the
barns and watch the juniors, intermediates and seniors and I see the same
pattern – the older showmen have no idea that the beginners are watching their
every move and essentially idolizing them.
I challenge every showman, over the age of
12, to start paying attention to their actions in front of the novice
showmen in the barns. I challenge them to remind themselves and their peers
that: SOMEWHERE, IN THIS BARN, THERE IS A LITTLE KID THAT WANTS TO BE JUST LIKE YOU. YOU
OWE IT TO THEM TO BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE.
Be a good role model. Set a good example. In
a few years, when you too are “retired” from the show ring, you will see your
efforts come full circle and it will be more rewarding than you could have ever
imagined.